another year, this time with feeling
So tomorrow I will have aged another year. Birthdays have stopped being meaningless for many years now, aside from entering my third decade on Earth. This weekend we will be playing tourist in our own backyard. No, not the parks, just the hotels. Who wants to go to the parks this time of year? Not me! I don’t plan on blogging from Thursday until maybe Monday, but I’ll probably be on Twitter if I’m not in the pool.
Anyway, I was born in our nation’s bi-centennial. Almost made the date too. Oh well. Nothing exciting happened on the day I was born according to the wikipedia. No one of importance was born, died, and nor did any significant event take place on this day. I guess it was just an average day around the globe. Except for my parents of course.
Both this year and my birth year fall on a Thursday. I’ve been on the planet now for 12,419 days. 298,056 hours. 17,883,360 minutes. 1,073,001,600 seconds as of midnight anyway. I dunno what time I was snatched from my mothers belly. Doesn’t matter, no need to be exact. Thanks mom for making me alive.
Since I am 34, I thought I would share 34 things about me.You know, since I don’t have an about me page.
- I am a sports fan. Pretty much like anything, but NY Islanders hockey and NY Mets baseball are my top 2. I can play any sport competitively as well. My best would be golf, hockey, soccer, and softball. Basketball is where I fall short on interest though. At five-six, it’s never been my thing.
- I love all kinds of music. Seriously, all kinds. I have some of everything on my iPod. I prefer rock to anything else, especially acoustic rock. I really love music in person but that’s a rare occurrence for me these days. Too expensive, too late, and I have rules like requiring a seat.
- I have been married for 12 years come September and with the same lady for 15 years. We have 2 amazing girls.
- I am an IT Manager by trade. I manage a team of programmers specializing in front end web development with a Java background. I’ve been doing this kinda stuff for about 13 years now at only 4 different places.
- I love gadgets. Pretty much anything Apple makes, I’m interested in it. I’m not a fan-boy or anything, I just like stuff that works and works well.
- I don’t have many friends, but the ones I do have I keep close.
- I am extremely shy and do not like socializing situations. When I find myself in them, chances are I will try to avoid a handshake so you don’t notice my sweaty palms.
- I am decent at and really enjoy playing video games. But nothing that requires a lot of time to dedicate. With 2 young kids and a full time job, there’s just not enough time for anything I can’t start/stop for 20-30 minutes. So I mostly play sports games or things without “stories” and depth.
- I am ultra-competitive in just about everything I do.
- I am a bit of a loner in the grand scheme of personalities.
- I have suffered from depression and insomnia since I was about 12. I have been off and on meds at various times for both. Ambien is a great thing.
- I am an active dad and savor every second I can spend with my children.
- I don’t dance. Not ever. Occasional slow dance but that’s it. No exceptions.
- I seriously lack self-confidence.
- I have poor self esteem and a poor self image.
- I love dogs and although I don’t mind cats, I will never have one as a pet.
- I have an absurd talent where I can hear a few notes of a song and tell you what or who it is. Especially 80′s hair metal. Not the obscure crap, but much of it.
- I’m really handy with home electronics.
- I’m a pretty good cook and I’m not afraid to try to make any recipe.
- I’m not a handyman but I can do some simple things with decent instructions. That does not apply with cars, I am not a gear head.
- I do not consider myself a manly man, but I’m not girlie either. I just have girlie features and would look good in a dress and makeup if I were into that sort of thing.
- I am a night owl and not a morning person. Although I like when I have a reason to get up early and get in a “full” day.
- I was born and lived in Long Island, New York until I was 12.
- I prefer the beach at night unless we’re playing games(volleyball, paddle-ball, football, soccer, etc…).
- I like movies far more than television. I hardly watch any TV.
- I am pretty good at giving advice, but not very good at accepting it unless I ask for it. I’m kinda stubborn and prefer to learn by fire.
- I can be really lazy at times.
- I fear major life changes and major purchases.
- I will not have any more kids because I went through some permanent male birth control. It was easy too.
- (knock on wood) I’ve never broken any bones or had any major surgery that required anesthesia. I was hit by a car when I was 8 or 9 and fractured my skull with a punctured eardrum, but it was minimal and not nearly as serious as it could have been. Out of the hospital in about a week. No permanent damage or hearing loss. However, some may say that’s debatable.
- I’m not a violent person. I haven’t been in a fight since the 3rd grade.
- I am writing this while wearing a shirt I have had and worn for over 10 years. It is my favorite shirt. Also, the jeans I’m in I’ve had for about 5 or 6 years. I don’t grow much.
- I have a strange selective memory. What I do remember though usually comes with great detail.
- I prefer quality to quantity.
So there you go. One nugget of info for every year of my existence. I don’t have an about me page, so this will have to do. Have a good weekend my friends.




June 23rd, 2010 at 7:24 am
We have to have an 80s hair metal night. Seriously. Jared and I are total geeks in this area.
And I still think it’s strange that you say you aren’t social. I loved you the moment I met you!
And I’ve seen you dance.
Miss Britt´s last [type] ..When your kids are old enough to want you gone.
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The Wife Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 2:39 pm
@Miss Britt, he’s a freak of nature when we play the 80s hair metal channel guessing game.
YOU’RE ON.
The Wife´s last [type] ..MY Piper. And NOT Avitable’s sack.
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June 23rd, 2010 at 7:44 am
Happy Birthday!
Mandi Bone´s last [type] ..She talked!!!
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June 23rd, 2010 at 2:40 pm
Soooooo the sports gets like 4 lines and I get barely a mention.
I see where I stand.
ass.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
The Wife´s last [type] ..MY Piper. And NOT Avitable’s sack.
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June 23rd, 2010 at 8:13 pm
I can attest to that only hearing a note or two….as a 3 yr old, he screamed so loud when his favorite song came on the radio, I also had an accident…..(I won’t embarrass him by telling you which song, be the artist initials are BM)..all he heard were the first two notes….it was scary then too. I think you fell short with 34 things about you…..you are an great son, brother and one of the greatest dads. As one of your former employers to me when you were just 18, what a great kid you have Karen….and you stayed that way. You make me so proud to call you son…and I can recall your birthday in detail, it was one of the best days of my life. Becoming a Mom for the first time is very special and you have made being your Mom such a wonderful experience…..for 34 years….HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAT!!!!!!
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June 24th, 2010 at 12:49 am
Happy Birthday, Patrick! See you next week!
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June 24th, 2010 at 1:53 pm
ya aul bollix!
Martin´s last [type] ..Solstice solace
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Hockeyman Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 11:47 pm
@Martin, HA! But at least USA in in the round of 16.
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June 24th, 2010 at 3:01 pm
[...] he made a list of 34 things about himself, but only one tiny smidge of the list was about me. [...]
June 24th, 2010 at 3:45 pm
Happy birthday, you old fuck.
Avitable´s last [type] ..Mad Libs: The Divorce Decree Edition
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Hockeyman Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 11:47 pm
@Avitable, hehe, thanks fucker mcfuckstick.
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June 24th, 2010 at 8:58 pm
I will use this opportunity, the day of your birth (or next day or whatever, I wasn’t concentrating) to abuse you.
So Happy Birthday to the man that took my innocence.
Lemon Party.
Bastard.
Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo´s last [type] ..A single bogan ranga atheist migrant woman from South Australia is now our Prime Minister. Break out the tracky pants and ugg boots people.
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Hockeyman Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 11:48 pm
@Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo, HAHA! I had a good chuckle reading this comment. Sorry about that, but not really. I still use the prank as much as possible. Thanks!
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